Last year, I read the book “Freakonomics” by Malcolm Gladwell. The chapter about parenting left an impression on me. If I remember correctly, one of the main themes was: it is not what you do for a child that makes the biggest impression on her character, but rather, who you arethat has the most influence. For example, taking your children to a museum every day—or giving them educational games—won’t make them smarter. But if you, as a parent, value learning, then chances are your child will as well. This rule applies (according to a whole bunch of numbers and data) to many values we try to instill in a child.
As I think of Justina becoming a parent (and if what this book says is true), I know her little girl will be just fine in life. If the character of her mother influences her at all, then she will be kind, thoughtful and creative. She will value a sense of humor, honesty and expression in any form. She will be tolerant of others and inspire everyone around her. She will be bold, confident and she will love her life, finding happiness even in the struggle. She will also have GREAT style.
I couldn’t be more excited for Justina. I know that she will be an exceptional mother. I was incredible honored when she asked me to be a guest blogger. Since she is taking the time now to enjoy being a new mother, I thought it appropriate to share a few of the photos we took of her beautiful belly. (I think she is absolutely radiant.)
Much love, Annie
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My daughter is 19 soon to be 20 years old, and when you start out as a new mother you just hope and pray that following your heart will be enough, it takes courage and conviction….but i’d like to reassure you that now I’m further down the line that you are right, of course we do all the stuff, museums , art, extra classes, loads of nature, swimming, tree climbing,art, spirituality etc, but you’re right , what I quietly notice about my daughter is that she’s taken on board my general life ethos and interpreted it in her own way.
I read loads of parenting how to books etc, but ultimately you can only be the mother that you are and above all it’s important to trust yourself, as you are the perfect parents for your child.
Agree, a big thing I’ve noticed with two kids is to show interest in them and what they do, and get back to basics. Since we moved onto the boat, we are closer (literally) we all interact more and because we spend our spare time on the beach or exploring they are much calmer and don’t want for anything, before they were like little crack addicts always wanting something or to go somewhere where there was temptation everywhere. I love that old saying collect experiences not things.
Sarah x
Lovely photos and great sentiment.
Freakonomics is not written by Malcolm Gladwell. It’s written by Steven Leavitt and Stephen Dubner. People can listen to their very funny podcast episode on parenting here – http://www.freakonomics.com/2011/08/17/new-freakonomics-radio-podcast-the-economists-guide-to-parenting/
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